Sexual Fetishes? I'm just wondering here, are sexual fetishes or fantasies, (for example the giantess fetish, the furry fetish, blood fetish and god-knows-what other fetishes are out there) are they genetic or simply obtained by experience. Also, do we have control over them?
And lastly what are the legal and moral boundaries of a fetish, for EXAMPLE: If both parties gave consent would you say a strangulation fetish was legal and/or moral. |
I think erotic asphyxiation is legal if both parties consent. However there would still be a price to pay if something went wrong.
As for Fetishes, they are the accumulation of experiences (sexual or otherwise) that have occurred throughout ones life. However, as with homosexuality, some fetishes can be "directed" because of a persons sexuality. |
Adult Topic - What Does The Catholic Church Say About Sexual Fetishes? I know that according to Catholic teachings that any sex outside of marriage that is not meant to create life is regarded as sinful.
What about sexual fetishes where the act of sex is not involved? What goes on is indeed sexual but sex (the act) is not always involved.
So according to the Church would they have a problem with one of the church-goers going to a dominatrix paying to worship her feet?
What does the Church say about fetishes in general? I would appreciate serious answers. |
| Last I heard the church hated everything having to do with sex. God gives them their babies. |
Is there a correlation between sexual fetishes and sexual abuse? Like do people have sexual fetishes typically because they are abused. |
| Not always no-but it can be a factor. |
Do you think people that have Sexual FETISHES are BORN with their Sexual FETISH(s) ? * Are people born with Sexual Fetishes or do you people gain their Sexual Fetishes in their life travels, life experiences, and sexual experiences ?
* Sexual Fetishes Born with or Not Born with ? |
Hard to say. I do know people with foot fetishes might have a wiring problem, since the section of the brain that governs the feet is right next to the pleasure center.
Others, could be upbringing, a strong association with a particular object/person that brought pleasure, etc. |
Do women have sexual fetishes like men do? I've heard of some odd fetishes, but fetishes seem to be male dominated.
I'm just curious, if there are any women on YA right now that have a sexual fetish
Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal that a person receives from an object. |
My girlfriend has a bondage fetish.
She loves to be tied up...
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Are Sexual fetishes Obtained or Discovered? Some people have sexual fetishes. These are non-sexual objects that a person derives abnormal sexual pleasure from. Some men are sexual gratified by satin gloves, satin panties, skirts. Others have boot, high heels, bare feet fetishes, or even a long hair fetish. Many men and women have multiple fetishes. I was wondering how do most people get fetishes? Are they conditioned to them for the first time in there life as an adult? Or does something happen to them, to reveal, or make them discover, they always had this fetish? |
| I think the internet has elevated fetishes in folks. One reads about another fetish, wether it was real or made up and then even tries it or dreams up another one. Years ago ones sexual desires were private then came magazines, forum, variations etc that were availabe to adults only, now you have the internet that you can type in anything and get answers no matter how old . We all like to try something new, some just have stronger wills to know what is right and what is wrong. |
Why are sexual fetishes considered to be psychological disorders? I had asked a question yesterday for the purpose of acquiring opinions on the... Nature of my particular fetish. This question has since been deleted, but a user did manage to say that if I had any intention of following through with my fetish that I should seek professional counseling. He or she also said that fetishes are considered to be a type of mental illness.
Is this correct? If so, why? |
| Mental disorders usually involve one or more of the 4 Ds: deviance, distress, danger, or dysfunction. Fetishes are deviant from the norm, and they can also be dysfunctional if they prevent the person from having sex without that particular object/situation. |
What are the sexual fetishes that are common among women? Most of the fetishists I've known are men, including me. Tell me some of the fetishes that some women can have |
| ha ha this page is full of men who have no idea what their on about, our fantasies are not always as visual and straight forward as yours boys, keep that in mind! |
How do you bring up sexual fetishes to a potential mate? I have an extreme fetish for women peeing and a small attraction to female feet in flip-flops. How do I tell a potential girlfriend about these desires? |
mang ok u gotta take it slow. first when u go out a few times dont tell her. after u guise r alredy having seckso, smell her feet and say that they smell good. then lick it. it she dosent freek out then kool. thats wear u come in wiff ur pee fetish. mmmmmm i has a womens pee fetish to btw.
next time u eat her out, do it fore a long time until she has too pee but dont let her go to the bathroom. hold her and keep eeting her and suck her clitoriz and she mite let out a drop of pee. u drinck it and say oh baybeh u peed on me! then when she says oh **** mang sorrie! u say, it was delish!! keep eating her and tell that hore to keep peeing. if she dosent freak out then kool. if she dose then keep drincking the pee by forse then do her in the buttwhole and when u finish sey u need too sea other peopel.
if she dosent like u fore u, dont waist ur time! |
What sexual fetishes are normal or common to have if any? I think I might be a freak. I know im weird but Im wondering if i have crossed the line to freak. |
Fetishes are not "normal". If they were they would just be preferences. But fetishes are not necessarily always dangerous either. If you, or anybody else wants to know, fetishism and bondage sadomasochism, beastiality and all those are all seperate catagories. The short definition of a fetish is the need to have a specific object inorder to become aroused and in some cases, even to climax.
Common fetishes include feet, hands, other such body parts. Then common things people have fetishes over are leather, whips and chains. Porn can also be considered a fetish in some cases where a person needs it in order to become aroused and climax. But people can have fetishes over just about anything cars, animals, sometimes with men fetishes can be over objects that resemble a vagina. And in women fetishes can include objects that are phallic, or resemble a penis. |